Lisa Haneberg quotes Carl Rogers:

I have come to recognize that being trustworthy does not demand that I be rigidly consistent but that I be dependably real.

Lisa has the fuller version. I tend to avoid how to lists for things like facilitation because they tend to suggest consistency is key... whereas I am increasingly realise that each facilitation is diffierent and I do better to show up to whatever is really happening, rather than try to apply some consistent theory.