Self-doubt and the bullying boss

Johnnie Moore

Johnnie Moore

I’m Johnnie Moore, and I help people work better together

The BPS Digest reports that Self-doubt turns bosses into bullies. If power corrupts it may not corrupt equally. They describe some small scale experiments from which researchers concluded:

Power holders who do not feel personally competent are more likely than those who feel competent to lash out against other people.

That makes some kind of sense to me, and reminds me of Richard Farson’s formula, that responsibility plus helplessness leads to abuse.

The researchers add this slightly depressing suggestion:

Additionally, the finding that self-worth boosts assuage the aggressive tendencies of such power holders implies the effectiveness of a strategy commonly employed by underlings: excessive flattery.

I bet we’ve all seen that strategy in action and I know I’ve been guilty of it in the past. It stores up even more trouble for the future.

Share Post

More Posts

Noticing

The power of small gestures and noticing

Small p presence

Getting away from grandiosity or solemnity. small p presence is about being open to the life around us

Small i improv

Facilitation is often about small, subtle acts of noticing and experimenting

Enough

We’re bombarded with messages – can we create more space to think?

February 2025 update

People have been facilitated before: boredom, stillness, recovering attention and the undercurrents of life

More Updates

Emotional debt

Releasing the hidden costs of pent up frustrations

Aliveness

Finding the aliveness below the surface of stuck

Johnnie Moore

Brand… or community?

Nice post by Robert Paterson looking at New Bedford as a historically successful “knowledge community”. Minus all the fancy jargon.

Johnnie Moore

Marketing as community building

I’m running a seminar next Friday for a group of independent schools in England. This is something I’ve been doing for a number of years and I’m looking forward to

Johnnie Moore

Driven by fear

Another challenging post by Antonio Dias: Driven by Fear.Recognizing our own fear as we approach those we recognize to be driven by fear directs our attention at the dynamics of

Johnnie Moore

Bricking It

Yesterday I facilitated an Open Space for the Bricking It conference held at Channel 4 in London. With my friends at Policy Unplugged, I’ve developed a stripped down version of